Friendships & whatnot

Everyday we go through ups and downs. But we make it. When you think your whole world is about to fall apart; who do you run to? I'm glad to say I have many best friends. I may not know them since grade school or from my old hometown. But it's ok. 

I have never connected with anyone like I have with the friends that I cherish now. I don't see them as often as I would like. But they are just a text or call away. And when we get together it's like no time has passed! I see the friends I used to have in my old hometown. And honestly they're still pretty cool. But I don't think I would have had a bond like I do with my lovely ladies. Like our talks about men, sex, plans, trips, our future! I know for a fact my kids will have awesome aunties to look up to. They are unique in their own way! And they accept my weirdness and have never tried to change me! I take care of them like if they were my own sisters. A couple of days ago I was just crying and felt so emotional. With a simple "don't stress" from my friend and sister, I felt better. 

You know the fact that some people wait for the other person to text you first kinda disturbs me as well. If the bond isn't there maybe something is going on with the friendship. Sure you're growing apart and doing new things. But a simple "hello" and "how are you doing" doesn't hurt. 

How do friendships start in the first place? A simple hello and what kind of music do you like?!! What books do you like to read? What's your favorite movie?? 

Well that's it for today! 

Xoxo, 

  Mimi

Praying on a Baby bump!

      

  I know I'm not the only one that has been on this bumpy road. The feeling of thinking that you won't ever be a parent is utterly devastating. Having sex constantly, checking when you ovulate, monitoring your monthly flow. It can be stressful!!! You know what???!! Don't even think about it! Get your body and health right first. Have fun and enjoy your husband or lover. Read books or poems to get rid of stress. Meditate good thoughts!! Basically Eat, Pray, and Love!

       I spoke to my doctors and had so many blood work done. They advised me to start taking Maca Root and Evening Primrose Oil vitamin supplements. Of course I was also taking Flaxseed oil, vitamin d3, and b12. A prenatal as well. 

I'm not saying its really going to work in the following week. It can take a while. Be patient! Good things come to those that wait! Don't rush! Trust me I've been on the same boat. Infertility sucks and can be scary. Even if you get a positive pregnancy test there are still doubts going through your head thinking the impossible. But we have to have good thoughts. Think positive! 

Wow!! It's been a While!!

It has been a year or two since I have posted. We are now in 2015. I changed work positions and I am now less stressed! And that was last summer 2014. Had I guess a pretty decent year I should say. I had so many plans for this year and well... Some of them might change due to I am pregnant with my first child!! So overwhelming and exciting. I am taking every day as a blessing. God willing we will meet this little one in September. We have prayed for the day a test came positive. But we were so shocked and in disbelief! I am taking every day as a blessing. We are already thinking baby names and eating healthy. Our family is so excited and happy! It was a long time coming. And now I feel like I need to write about my daily day to day. And keep writing. Memories are to be cherished and enjoyed and I want to share some of the things I went through to get to this beautiful lovely point in my life.